Thread:Chikako the Meowstic/@comment-35289717-20191207160842/@comment-32252932-20191207230809

Alright, but don't take it as a personal attack. Remember, this is the only way I can show insight of the situation by being critical of you with these 3 issues.

Anyways, down below is the list of reasons and my explanations that justify it...

1. No communication to admin team: One thing that I would think to do with this kind of ban involving an moderator is discuss among the admin team and decide what should be done with the person at fault and how long his block should be based off his actions. But in this situation, you did not at all address the situation to any other admin in the fandom, whether that would be via. Discord or their message wall. It first doesn't sound like a major thing to complain about, but then you have to realize that this isn't like a normal ban - and that these kind of bans require more attention and necessary discussion before being pulled through. Continue with this kind of "leave everything to me" mentality and your fellow admins are more likely to consider you selfish and arrogant. Additionally, you are less likely to be considered a contributing admin due to not being able to discuss major issues with those in the same power as you, and therefore being seclusive of others.

2. Over-dramatization: This and the one below is where Butter is officially part of the issue alongside with you, and since both of you have clearly done these before, that's why I am not just addressing you only. Anyways, the issue that me and Vemsa majorly agree on is that you 2 tend to blow up little issues into absolute arguments or even flamewars. Whether that would be forcing your own personal idealism on someone else because that's what you want them to do instead of having them have their own freedom of idealism, or mistaking one's gender and making it into a unnecessary flamewar, this one is usually the most prominent sore thumb that I have seen that led up to Vemsa's ban. But from what I have seen, you guys actually made it worse because you decided to continue adding to the argument, leading to it continuing further instead of trying to stop it yourself. Additionally, recognize that all of those arguments had no density and were just useless fluff of drama that could've been prevented easily had you not made such a big deal out of it. Butter especially has this issue, as time shows that most of the grudges that he had mainly grew from him making a situation worse than it really is and sometimes even being dragged along for way too long.

3. Accusing w/o proper justification: This ties in relatively with my second point, but I felt it had to have it's own section. One thing that I noticed is that you and Butter by blowing things out of proportion then just start making assumptions as your reasoning or justifications during an argument, and I find it to be just more unnecessary fluff that doesn't make the situation any better. Also, although you say that you have evidence unlike Vemsa, the only one that I have seen as a proper piece of evidence is him deleting your warnings. But even with that, most of your "evidence" came from pure dramatizations, which makes the warnings feel a little more opinionated than objective. Before I finish off this final point, I also believe that these assumptions are exploited too much to a degree where it becomes the main point of the "argument", which again could've been avoided with proper caution. I also am a pretty big anti-assumption kind of person, so that's also why I decided to discuss it as a reason instead of a "footnote".

Also, I think that although I can't exactly have Vemsa be unblocked unless the final solution involves it, maybe you could shorten his block for now after seeing my points (that is, if you are willing to see the faults that you haven't recognized)? Hopefully, this post should show both of you that you're aren't completely innocent as you make it seem just because Vemsa has been banned. Anyways, that is it for my side of this controversy, will be anticipating what your response is...